VUUpoint

Sunday Services for April 2002


9:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m.

April 7: On Miracles, Memory and Hope:The Story of Lazarus.

For those of you who are not biblically literate Lazarus is another resurrection story, a man raised from the dead by Jesus. It is one of the "miracles" that Thomas Jefferson cut out of his Bible in his quest for a sensible Jesus. But the story is worth exploring in a new light as it deals with our human losses and how we find hope in times of grief.

Our Recorder group will provide Special Music.

April 14: What Can We Learn from the Mystics About Tending Our Souls?

Mystics have not had a particular good name within our faith, so centered upon the use of reason in religion. Yet we have had our share of what I call the soul’s poets and visionaries. So what do the mystics have to teach us? What are the inherent dangers and rewards in following such a spiritual path?

The Choir will sing an original composition by Ryan Marvel entitled "Spirit of Sanctity".

April 21: Good and Evil: Our Responses to this Eternal Human Choice and Dilemma.

Lately the word evil has been overused and bandied about almost carelessly to justify all kinds of actions. We can’t stop what others are saying. But we can look closely at how we, Unitarian Universalists, who believe in the inherent goodness of every person, deal with the question of evil. Ignoring it is not the answer and to make our choices wisely we need a solid theology or philosophy of evil. This Sunday we will take a stab at this thorny question.

April 28: What is Zen?  Lay service

A look at Zen Buddhism in the life of the West and the life of this church

May 5: More than a Fairytale: The Faith of a Unitarian Storyteller, Hans Christian Andersen. NOTE: New Service Times will be 9:30 and 11:15 a.m. from now until we go to a single service for summer.

Yes, the creator of the ugly duckling and the little mermaid was a Unitarian. He was also a far more ironic, serious and complicated writer than most of the English translations and certainly all the Disney movie adaptations would suggest. His life was a struggle against internal insecurities and outward snobbery. It was also a testament to the strength of the human and creative spirit.

 


Ministers Dusty Desert Corner

  "On Spiritual Cobwebs, Spring Winds and Paying Attention to What Really Matters."

Spring is the traditional time for sweeping our houses clean of winter clutter, dust and dirt. We open our windows to the shining world outside and let the strong spring winds bring clarity and light inside. There is a blessed interlude now before the simmering heat of summer drives us back inside, a time to enjoy and explore the beauty around us. Our bodies do not strain from cold or heat and we can rest in the moment. Every step seems lighter, easier and as Ralph Waldo Emerson once said: It is a pleasure just to draw breath

Let us use this interlude wisely and reflect on what really matters in our lives. We all accumulate what I call spiritual cobwebs, the equivalent of mental dust bunnies that obscure our clear thinking and clutter our view. The "to do lists" that never ends, the things and people that needs our attention, the everyday problems that pop up, why even opening my mail can distract me and throw me off track. Lately I have felt out of kilter, off center, weary and in dire need of some mental housecleaning. And I was not really looking forward to this minister’s meeting in Birmingham, yet another thing to do…

But I was wrong. My Unitarian Universalist colleagues, some 500 of them, created a passionate, inspiring, prophetic and nurturing community. This was just what my spirit needed. The Convocation was intense, beginning each day with worship followed by two speakers, small covenant groups, and two more lectures, afternoon workshops, evening vespers and if we wanted more lectures and meetings. So my head is full, my soul is on fire and I have a lot to digest and use.

A bonus for me was an all day Selma trip with 50 other UU ministers led by Rev, Orlof Miller and Clark Olson who were with James Reeb when he was beaten and later died. It was a privilege to share their trip back to such painful, hopeful and life changing days in the struggle for justice.

Like a strong wind these days in Birmingham and Selma cleared away my mental clutter and reminded me of what really matters. And gave me many good ideas and much grist for my sermon mill.

Soon we will all have an opportunity to explore what really matters for our congregation’s future. We will have a Visioning Weekend May 17- 19. I urge you to mark your calendar and participate in this process. We want and need your input and are looking forward to hearing what really matters to you.

Lone

 


Board Bits
Debbie Dinyes,
Board President

Spring is arriving by fits and starts. The smell of orange blossoms fills the air. It seems a little cool and breezy for this time of year, but savor it and store the thought of it to pull out in August! Church is in full spring swing. A good time was had by all at the Heart and Hand Auction on March 2. We had our Prescott retreat and we move on to April. April 13 is our Spring Recital, a lovely evening of classical music presented by many talented professional musicians from the congregation as well as some guests. Related to that we will have a special fund-raising concert for our Long Range Planning/Capital fund on May 4. Tickets for both are now on sale. April 21 is our spring annual meeting. At this meeting we will hear reports from the minister, president and committees, elect the congregational leadership and vote on some changes in our by-laws. All members have received a copy of the proposed by-law changes by mail. If you have not gotten yours, please contact the office.

 

April 26, 27 and 28 is the Pacific Southwest District and DeBenneville Pines annual meeting in Tucson. The main portion of the meeting will take place Saturday, with many interesting workshops. VUU is very much involved with this event. Joanne Smith is running for re-election for PSWD president,


Jack Ripple is president of the DeBenneville Pines board and our own Kellie Walker is a workshop presenter. This meeting has been held in California in the past, making it difficult for a lot of Arizona folks to attend. There are many California churches compared to Arizona, but they do not exceed us in spirit, energy or enthusiasm. Let’s show them our Arizona spirit by attending the conference in great numbers. Both weekend and Saturday only registration options are available and a full program is planned for children of all ages. Information and forms are available from Joanne Smith, Rhoda McDuffie or by the office.

The Long Range Planning and Growth Committee is busy planning for our important mission and goal setting weekend, May 17-19. They are seeking volunteers to facilitate small group meetings and homes to hold the meetings in. Please consider being a group leader or host. Call Duke Mertz, 480-345-2626 to volunteer.

Are you a morning person? Do you like the peace of the early part of the day? Do you like to park close to church? Then consider the 9:00 service. It is peaceful, uncrowded and there is ample parking.

Valued Volunteers: Thanks to Debbe Simpkins and Inge Tonkovich for chairing the Heart and Hand Auction. Numerous people helped with the many tasks including a bunch that just showed up on auction day to help get ready. Thanks to you all. John Sadowsky has stepped down as chair of ushers. (Hint: job opening here) and we thank him for his long service in this position. Conrad and Jane Paul started and host the Great Books discussion group monthly. This group is open to all who want to read and participate. For information call them at 480-892-4930. Thanks to Jane also for organizing our dinner groups. Welcome to Vicki Kulik, our new VUUpoint editor. Thank you for taking on this important job.


LIFESPAN RELIGIOUS

EDUCATION NEWS

Marilyn Huerter

Director of Religious Education

COMING OF AGE

Seven of our young people attended the third and final COA retreat in March, the "Vision Quest", held at Chapel Rock in Prescott. It was a chilly weekend, but the kids were great, and I think they really got a lot from the experience. They still have some requirements to complete before they "graduate" from the program in May.

WAVE POOL PARTY!

Saturday, May 11 - 6:00-8:00 PM

Don’t miss this fun activity that’s great for all ages, families or singles. TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED IN ADVANCE; NO tickets at the door! Don’t be disappointed. Get tickets at the RE table on Sunday mornings. Questions? Ask at the RE table or call me.

SUMMER SUNDAY SCHOOL

It’s not too early to start thinking about summer! This year our theme is "Share Your Passion!" What do you enjoy doing? What kind of work do you do? Do you have a special interest? A hobby or craft? This is a great way to let our children get to know

church members, and for you to get to know our kids, too. You can choose the date(s) and the age level you’d like to work with. There’s only one service during the summer months, so it’s easy. Please help us out this year, and get the kids involved in something you enjoy. If you have questions, I’ll be happy to help answer them.

ADULT RE PROGRAMS

Good news! A new adult RE course is starting up in May! Kat Henderson and Dick Krueger will be teaming up again to facilitate "Being Liberal in an Illiberal Age: Why I Am a Unitarian Universalist", by Jack Mendelsohn, UU minister for over 50 years.. Sign-up sheets will be on the RE table out in front. We need to know how many will be attending, as we have to order the books - cost $14.The class will be held on the 5 Thursday evenings in May, at 7:15 PM. Child care will be available for a small fee.

PLAN AHEAD...

The first part of "The Parent Trilogy: Three Programs for UU Parents and other Adults" will be starting in August. This has been requested by many parents, but you don’t have to be a parent to attend! We ALL raise our UU kids, so put it on your calendars.

Also coming in August will be "Rise Up and Call Her Name", a "herstory" of women and religion all over the world. This is an oldie but goodie that we haven’t done in a while, and is definitely worth repeating. Men invited, too!

Look for sign-up sheets for both of these in the near future.

Marilyn


♫ Music Notes ♫

Kellie Walker
Director of Music Ministries

Family Choir

A special Family Choir is forming for our Mother’s Day services on May 12. This for any youth in 6-12th grades, along with a parent or adult parent substitute. We will rehearse in the sanctuary on Wednesday evenings: April 3, 10, 17 and 24, from 6:30PM to 7:15 PM, and then sing for the services on May 12. A great way to try out singing in a choir, without the long-term commitment.

Spring Recital

Don’t miss our Annual Spring Recital (formerly our Winter Recital) on Saturday, April 13, 7:30PM at the Church. This event will feature classical chamber music from our own Ryan Marvel on piano, as well as various other musicians including Carol Matthusen on cello and Lorraine Rice on organ. Elegant deserts cap off the evening and are included in the price ($8 advanced tickets sold between and after the Church services, or $10 at the door). Pianist Mamak Dahnad and soprano Magda Silva will be giving a preview of their May 4th program consisting of amusing pieces having to do with the relationship between accompanist and performer. The May 4th evening will be a benefit for our Long Range Planning Committee, and if you buy tickets for both events at the same time, you will save money!


STAFF BIOGRAPHY

Marilyn Huerter

Director of Religious Education

The older one gets, of course, the longer one’s personal story becomes. I will try to keep this to within a reasonable length!

I was born in New York City, and my only sister arrived 2 ½ years later. The summer I turned three my family, which included my maternal grandmother, moved to Paterson, New Jersey, where I grew up. My grandmother had bought the same house my mother had been born in! That fall, however, tragedy struck: my 33-year-old father died of a heart attack, from a congenital heart defect, and my mother was a widow at 30 with two babies. His death was probably the most potent, life-altering event of my entire life. Not a day went by that I didn’t think of my father and how different my life would have been if he had lived. I didn’t really come to grips with it and chase away the demons until I was in seminary, some 40 years later.

It was always expected that I would go to college. My mother, who had remarried, had been unable to get a college degree, so she wanted it for her girls. She indoctrinated us early and continuously about the importance of education. But I decided I didn’t want to go to a nearby institution. My family life was full of conflict - between my mother, step-father and grandmother - and I wanted to get as far away as possible! I chose a New York State Teachers College in Fredonia, NY, 50 miles west of Buffalo, NY, on Lake Erie. I was really quite shy at the time, and looking back, it was a huge step for me, but I did very well, and was SO glad to be away from home! I majored in Music Education, and planned to be a High School band leader But after meeting the man who was to be my first husband (who was a teacher on Long Island); I realized I’d never get a job there. Remember, this was 1958, and many doors were closed to women! So being of practical mind, I switched my major to Elementary Education.

Jennifer was born seven years after George Kesner and I married, and we adopted two-year-old Matthew a few years later. But the marriage was floundering, and we separated after almost 18 years together.

During my first marriage I had taught elementary grades, and then became a substitute teacher when my children were young. But I got tired of just maintaining order in the classrooms, and changed occupations to go into real estate. I worked for five years, and even got my broker’s license. But after my divorce, I realized I wanted something more, and applied to Union Theological Seminary in New York City, to become a UU minister.

My mother was a fundamentalist Christian, and we had attended an American Baptist church all during my childhood. But when I went away to college, I realized no one at home would know if I went to church or not, so...I didn’t go! Freedom! But I had early on realized that there was much I didn’t agree with in my church, and hard as I tried, I couldn’t believe. When I met George, he was a "collapsed" Catholic, who had been introduced to Unitarianism. (It merged with Universalism in 1961.) I remember the first time I attended church with him - it was at North Shore Unitarian Society in Plandome, NY (now the richest UU church in the world, Shelter Rock). I felt like I had come home! This was what I believed, where I belonged religiously and spiritually

Life at seminary was wonderful - and also the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I was a single parent with two young children, I commuted three hours round trip from Long Island to NY City, and I drove a morning school bus run before I got on the train. And I did this for four years! Fortunately, my mother lived nearby and was able to help me with the kids. But it was so stimulating to be in that academic and spiritual environment. I felt truly alive! (And I love New York!)

During my last year of seminary, when I was Intern Minister at the Plandome church, I met Joe Huerter. Church is a good place to meet people! Joe was a UU who had just started coming to Plandome. Our first date was to a Renaissance Faire put on by his previous UU church. The rest, as they say, is history. We were married two years later at that same Renaissance Faire, in full costume, with all six of our children in attendance. It was a fun wedding! And it was a good marriage, too. We were together almost 22 years when he died this past Christmas.

When Joe and I married, his youngest child was only 9, and he was not ready to leave him and Long Island. But there were no ministerial positions open there, so I put my career on hold. We were still very involved in the UU church, however. When we finally decided to get out of the rat race of Long Island a few years later, we chose rural West Virginia. We fell in love with the rolling green hills and the laid-back life-style. It is such a lovely place. However, the nearest UU church was 85 miles away! This small fellowship of about a dozen people met only twice a month, so we trekked over the hills to be with them. It was good to find other UU’s in the "Bible Belt".

All my education was not for naught working with babies up to age three in at-risk situations, such as poverty, ignorance drugs, abuse, and/or developmental delays. It was sometimes heart-rending work, and hard to stay objective, even with my seminary counseling training.

In the meantime, my daughter Jenny had moved here to Arizona, the last place I ever wanted to live! But she had given me my first grandchild, Josh, and it was excruciatingly painful to be a long-distance grandma. So Joe and I left West Virginia in December, 1991, to come here.

One of the first things we did after arriving was to join Valley UU Church. It was so good to be in a larger community of UU’s again! We quickly became involved, and soon I was elected to the Board of Trustees and then as Vice-President. But that year the Director of Religious Education position opened up, and I realized that this would be a great opportunity for me to really use all my education.

This is now my third year as Director of Religious Education, and I love it! It is challenging but extremely rewarding. I have a great committee who is extremely supportive and who care about me. I couldn’t have made it through this past year without them. The families I have gotten to know are interested and involved. And the teachers are dedicated and responsible, and really make this program work. I feel fulfilled spiritually and emotionally. Once again, I feel that I have come "home". This is where I belong, for as long as I can be of help to this church and this community.

 Marilyn Huerter


SEARCHING FOR THE FUTURE ----

WEEKEND MEETINGS

Creating our Vision

Where will we be five years from now? If you want to have a say in answering this question, make sure you sign up for one of our "Searching for the Future" meetings which will be held in the middle of May.

Jeri Moulder, our VUU Growth Consultant, will return to host an additional series of planning sessions designed to find out where we are going:

May 17 - Friday evening, Jeri will train approximately 20 of our members to serve as facilitators.

May 18 - Saturday morning, afternoon or evening, the facilitators will conduct 3-4 hour sessions attended by 8-10 VUU members at meetings held in member homes or at the Church.

May 19 - Sunday afternoon, immediately after the second service, the facilitators draft a new VUU vision and mission statement to be presented to the Congregation in early June.

Sign Up in April

Check our table outside the church on Sunday, April 21, the date of the Congregational Meeting for sign up sheets bearing the names of the individuals who have volunteered to host the Saturday sessions. This will give you the opportunity to select the meeting place nearest you.

We plan to also list the names of the facilitators for each location, in case you would like to make your choice based on your favorite presenter.

In either event, make sure you sign up early, so you can choose the time and place most convenient for you. Don’t miss your chance to have your say in the future of Valley UU.


SPECIAL FUNDRAISER

SATURDAY, MAY 4, 7PM, AT THE CHURCH
All Proceeds benefit the work of the Long Range Planning Committee

Summer Appetizers on the Back Patio,
Followed By


Mamak Dohnad, Pianist, Magda Silva, Soprano

Tickets available April 21 $20.00 per person


The Outbox

Martha Storgen

Exciting changes continue in and around the office. Last month we found a new editor for the VUUpoint: Vicki Kulik. If you would like to assist her by being an alternate month or back up editor, give her a call. If you would like to help with the newsletter in other ways, join the Mailing Crew! They meet the fourth (usually) week of the month on Tuesday to fold, tape and label the newsletters. A smaller crew meets on Monday of that week to print and collate the newsletter. The job could not be completed with out these brave volunteers.

This month we are proud to introduce a new employee: Debra Porter, Clerical Assistant. She will be working in the office 15 hours per week. In the coming weeks our office hours will increase, as she learns the ins and outs of our particular office and begins to work on her own. We are all looking forward to working with her.

Final Note: Have you lost something in the last six months? Look in the Lost and Found Box. It is located under the small table just inside the office door. It is pretty full. Also, remember – all the things you need to borrow from the office are located on the small table. Please use the phone in the hall by the bathrooms. If you must use the phone on my desk, kindly take your coffee cup and cake plate with you when you go. Thanks.

Martha

Hello. My Name is Debbie Porter. I am the new clerical assistant in the Office. I am married with two girls and a house full of pets. I am excited to be here and look forward to meeting you.


VUU NOTES

 HAPPY ANNIVERSARY WISHES
TO LONG-TERM MEMBERS!

VUU would like to recognize the people who celebrated their 10 Year (or more!) anniversary of being a Member of this Church. We appreciate everything they have contributed over the years to help make this a welcoming and growing community. When you see them, tell them "Congratulations!"


Yoga at the Church


A gentle form of Hatha Yoga is now being offered at VUU. Each Monday evening from 7 - 8 PM in Classroom B (downstairs), Linda Martin registered and certified yoga instructor, is teaching the classes. All are welcome--it is beginning level class.

Please bring a pillow, small blanket, and/or any form of mat that you might have.

Classes are $10/class or $32/month.
If you have any questions or comments, please call Linda at the church


U.U. WOMEN’S CIRCLE -----
OPEN TO ALL ----


This group, which welcomes everyone, meets once a month—sometimes in a member’s home---sometimes in the church Cottage — UU Building #3. The regular meeting day is the second Thursday — 1:00 PM. The April 11 meeting will cover the subject of how historical persons may influence us.

The APRIL meeting will be held at
1PM at Sally Buntschuh’s:
Call Sally for directions at the church.

The April topic will be on:

"A Historical Person

Who Has Influenced Me".

The May meeting will be on Thursday the May 10th and the subject will be an interesting one on personal motivation:

"What Gets Me Up in the Morning?"

Location TBA

Remember, all women of the church are welcome.

Thank you!
Super Bowl ---A great Success

Thank all of you who contributed to the National outreach – a reply to the gluttony of the Annual Super Bowl—football and eat, eat, eat.

Nationally, over $3,000,000 was donated, plus tons of donated non-perishable canned goods. And---best of all—the money collected remains in the area of collection.

Valley UU donations of $194.00 goes directly to our special object of giving:

Paz De Cristo

Thanks to all of you.

 

BUY FOOD CERTIFICATES:

C You and your family EAT!

C You want to find ways to SUPPORT YOUR CHURCH