VUUpoint
Sunday Services for
December 2002
Sunday Services
are at 9:30 and 11:15
December 1: The Unitarian Hadj: A Journey of
Discovery
Our
Religious Cousins in Transylvania, Janice Brunson, Guest
Speaker
Glenn and Elliot Stallcop will provide music on piano and violin
December 8: Candles of Hope
This is the season where we light candles against the
night. We cherish the candle’s glow
every year. But
this year we wait anxiously to see if our country will go to war. How we need hope, peace, and candles to get
us, not just through the holidays and holy days, but also through this
waiting. For this our Hanukkah service, Adult
Choir sings at the
2nd service, the Children's Choir at both, and there will be a story for all ages. Minister led.
December 15: Rumors of Angels: A Christmas Service for the
Faithful and the Skeptics among Us.
Angels are old news. They have their own TV show and most of this country’s population believe in their existence. But what or who are these messengers, avengers, bringers of good tidings? Why do we seem to need them? Come and sing the old carols with us as we explore the meaning of angels and of Christmas. Minister led.
December 22: Celebration of Light: Our
Christmas Pageant for All Ages
An exploration of five cultures and the holidays
they observe during the winter season.
Adult Choir and our brass group
perform at both services.
SPECIAL Christmas Eve
Service 5 PM and 9:30 PM
December 24. At the Heart of this Season: Our Christmas
Eve Services.
Our early service will have stories for all ages, carols, music, and much joy.
At the second service, families are also welcome but it will be a quieter and done in a more contemplative mood. The Adult Choir will sing at the second service. We will all light candles at both services. Minister led.
December 29: On the
Importance of Ending Well or: Carrying Out the Holidays and the
Christmas Tree in Style
This is our Twelfth Night celebration, a little ahead of schedule. It is also our end of the year, take stock, and say goodbye to the old service. Join us for this informal gathering and if you have some left over cookies or other goodies bring them for the coffee hours. Minister led. John Metz will provide special music.
Minister’s Dusty Desert Corner C

By Lone Jensen
Glowing with Green and Red and Golden Hot Pepper Lights!
Christmas in the Desert has, I am discovering, its own traditions. Luminaries, pepper lights, Mexican cut out metal stars and ornaments and down the street from my house a 25 feet saguaro carefully outlined and hung with stands of bright lights. Next to it a stands an also lit, nodding, red nosed, glowing Rudolph, no doubt shaking his head in wonder. What feats of courage humans will perform to have a shining bright holiday! My neighbor braved sharp thorns and heights and who knows what else to let there be lots of lights. And I shake my head but I do not say too much. Next year, who knows, we have a saguaro too and it is a little bigger. Next year who knows what we might do.
Yes, I know it may be a waste of electrical resources. Yes, I know it can get completely out of hand so that one yard becomes a blaring testimony to all that seems wrong about this season. Such as commercialism and competition: my lights are bigger than your lights! Out there in the gravel yards of my neighborhood secular and sacred stories mix and match without much attention paid to their meaning. I have yet to see a nativity scene that has Santa coming down the stable chimney but I am sure it won’t be long. If we can have a green Grinch of Dr. Seuss fame next to Angels and Shepherds and the Holy Babe oh, then anything is possible!
Anything is possible. Oh, how I wish it were. Behind the holiday trappings, from the glorious to the awful there is still an ancient, haunting hope. Peace on Earth and among men (in these days women too) Good Will. How impossible that hope seems this season. Especially in the land where Jesus was born. Joy shall be ours in the morning? This season is filled, as Santa’s sack with expectations, memories, and high hopes: Our own hopes shaped by how we know these holidays should be like -- colored by the six year old within us who remembers the joy. And, then there are all the other wishes.
My wish for us in these tender holy days is that we will light candles of defiant hope in a turbulent, violent world. And I also wish that we will take the time we need to tend out souls. There is something magical about a candle flame. Sit quietly and gaze at the warm glow. May you find in such moments your own heart’s meaning.
And do not forget to laugh. God, or fate if you prefer, must have a great sense of humor. This month is a real mixed up nutty fruitcake stuffed with Pagan, Christian, Jewish and all kinds of other traditions. Honor those in which you find meaning, enjoy the silliness and the whimsy. Above all else, be gentle with yourself and with others. For some of us these holidays are hard, if we are ill or mourning or just not in the mood. Let us respect that. And remember that we are all a bit more fragile in these hopeful days.
Lone
Have a very merry Christmas, a liberating Hanukkah, a luminous Solstice, and a liberating Kwanzaa! And God willing, a happy and peaceful New Year!

BOARD BITS

By Debbie Dinyes,
Board President
We have had some changes on the board. Lynn DeMuth has stepped down from being Vice-President to use her considerable talents elsewhere in the congregation. Thanks to her for her wonderful work in this office. Replacing her is Bev McCormick and the board has appointed Karen McBeath to serve out Bev's term as trustee. Both these ladies bring great ability and experience to these new roles.
On October 27, we had a lively service and committee fair. The commitment leaves brighten the room and leaves are available to add until Thanksgiving. In the meantime, the executive committee (Bev McCormick, Deb Dinyes, and Loyd Means) has been looking at the leaves and sending the names on them to the appropriate committees or people for follow-up. We are also making a list of folks interested in one-time or short duration tasks, which can be used, as a talent pool for groups planning activities. My own leaf was to help with Canvass this year and step up to be Canvass chair in 2003-04. Many of you will be hearing from me soon regarding participation in the upcoming Canvass.
Save the date of Friday, February 28, 2003 for our annual Canvass Dinner. It will be held
at the East Valley Institute of Technology in
As we near the end of the year, we need your pledges to be brought up to date. We keep our doors open based on your pledges, and the bills come in no matter what. Pledge statements were sent out last month. Check yours and see where you stand. Pledges can be mailed or put in the plate. Be sure to identify any cash pledges.
Our 5-year plan was voted in, 96 to 4. The committee met with the board on November 19 to discuss our next steps.
This weekend, I saw the 1968 Stanley Kubrick movie, "2001: A Space Odyssey" for the second time, the first time having been in 1968. It was a strange and beautiful movie then and it still is beautiful, but now a little less strange. In 1968, we had no computers, no internet, no moon landings, and no cell phones. Women were just coming out of the kitchen and girls were still cheering on the athletes, not athletes themselves. (you should see the women in that movie). VUU has experienced those changes, been out in front and made changes of its own, successfully. We will continue to do so because we continue to work together and combine our talents and energy for the good of all. On to 2003 and beyond.
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Tree Trimming Party
Please join us for
the annual intergenerational tree trimming party on Saturday, December 7th from
Enjoy holiday music
and join in song while you make crafts and ornaments from various world
cultures. Bring a treat to share if you
wish, drinks will be provided. Come have some fun and
help us create a beautiful tree!
LIFESPAN RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS


Casting
Call for the Winter Pageant
The
Religious Education Steering Committee would like to invite parents and their children
to participate in this year's winter pageant, entitled Celebrations of Light. It is an exploration of five cultures and the holidays they observe
during the winter season.
The
program performances will take place on Sunday, December 22nd,
during both services.
The commitment for the children includes two
rehearsals. The first rehearsal will be
on the 8th of December during the second service (
Every child will be required to attend both rehearsals in order to participate in the
performance on the 22nd.
Costuming will be minimal and dependent on the
child's role in the service. Specific
costuming requests will be made at the first
rehearsal.
If
you would like for your child to be part of this extravaganza, please fill out
a Letter of Commitment available at the RE sign in table before services (and
return to the RE sign-in table). If you have any questions or concerns please
contact the church office.
New
Religion and Science Discussion Group
.
Ron Rutowski and Scott Henderson will facilitate a discussion
series on the relationship between science and religion. The initial focus will be on the interactions
between creationist and scientific world views on the
origin of the universe and of life on earth.
Kenneth Miller's Finding Darwin's
God: A Scientist's Search for Common Ground Between
God and Evolution, will be the first work discussed.
Participants will be responsible for obtaining their own
copy of this book. (Read chapters 1 and
2 before the first meeting.) The discussion will take place from 7-9 PM for
four consecutive Thursday evenings, starting January 9, at the church. Everyone
is welcome. To sign up and participate,
contact the church office. If interest continues, additional materials will be selected and the series will extend beyond January.
CANVASS
DINNER
FEBRUARY
28, 2003
IS THERE A DRUMMER IN THE HOUSE?
The VUU House Band is in need of a drummer. All ages welcome. For more information, call the church office.

High School Worship Service
December 1, at
5PM in the Sanctuary
.
The theme, music, and readings are all chosen by our youth.
Everyone is invited to attend this special
service. Don’t miss this opportunity to become acquainted with, and support our older
youths. Also, and not least, attend a wonderful service.
MUSIC NOTES
By Kellie Walker
Please mark your calendars now for our 4th
annual
MADRIGAL
DINNER!
The date is Sat. Feb. 1, probably at 5:30 or 6:00 PM at
VUU
This Renaissance Feast features Hot Wassail, Castle Special Poultry,
plus wonderful entertainment including a Humorous Cast of Savory and Unsavory
Characters such as recorder players, jesters, beggars, merchants, wandering
singers, and maybe even some Royalty.
Even the audience comes in costume. NOT TO BE MISSED!
Tickets must be purchased in
advance and will go on sale on Sunday Jan. 12 after church services. We anticipate selling out as we did last
year, so mark your calendars now and buy your tickets early.
Both baby-sitting and a vegetarian entrée are available upon
request. –
Kellie
Walker
VUU
Director of Music Ministries
Social Action Committee


Guest at Your Table
A Family, Sharing Project
Unitarian-Universalist
Service Committee (UUSC-the international arm of UU)
Every year, at this time of
reflection and giving, UUs all over the world, join in sharing their meals with
an “unseen” guest.
At the Thanksgiving Service,
November 24, each family was given a Table Box, to
place on their dining table to “feed” it money at each meal. This guest box is an excellent place to put
the loose change from your pockets, the change which lies on the bottom of your
purse, or at least a loose quarter, as you “feed” an unseen guest. Throughout the Holidays, feed it well, until
returning the box to VUU the first week in January.
A total of $25.00 will make you
a member of UUSC. A total of $60.00 and
up will be matched by a sister church, which is luck enough to have income from
an oil well! They do a
lot of good with that oil money!
This is a wonderful family
project, and we would like to involve everyone in this congregation, as we do
our share to feed the world
For another box (yes,
you can fill more than one) please contact the church office.
A Busy
Season for Shoebox Ministry
Last month, our church’s Shoebox Ministry gave 15 boxes of
toiletries to Paz de Cristo. Volunteers at Paz have distributed the boxes to needy people during weekly
personal hygiene nights.
This month I would like VUU to give as many boxes as
possible. Especially during the holiday
season, we send a strong message of hope and cheer with these small
packages.
Several newcomers have asked me what to give. I do not expect full boxes to be donated, although several anonymous donors have assembled
complete boxes. For me, opening them
through the year is like receiving surprise presents! Thank you so much, whoever you are! Also, big thanks to Rey
Bergelin (dentist) for donating over 50 toothbrushes!
What works well for assembling boxes is that folks donate
freebies from motels and hotels and then I ask for other items. Now (and in general), the supplies needed the
most are:
Shaving cream, razors, toothpaste,
Laundry soap tablets,
New
or (gently) used socks
During December, please bring these items to church and put
them in the chest in the entryway.
Lately I have been thinking how our church community is more than the sum of its parts. Our Shoebox Ministry effort is a concrete example of this. Thanks to so many for participating and helping the homeless!
Karen McBeath

Environmental
Action
The Environmental Action group will kick-off in January. Thank you to all who expressed interest thus far in activities such as political action, nature hikes, environmental education, and more! Look for date and location information in future VUUpoint and the Sunday Bulletin.
Our minister, Lone Jensen, asked whether we should be using paper or styrofoam for coffee and other drinks at Sunday services. Surprisingly, styrofoam comes out on top for several reasons:
The ideal of course is to have a washable cup for everyone at church, which is impractical with our current kitchen facility. Many Social Action committee members are going to start us down this path by bringing their own reusable cup each week. Please join us if you are able!
This holiday season; think about wrapping your gifts in reusable paper or cloth bags rather than traditional wrapping paper!

Let’s
Help
Habitat for Humanity
Habitat for Humanity is a
nonprofit Christian housing ministry dedicated to eliminating poverty and
homelessness. Homeowners are working
poor and must contribute about 400 hours of building time and pay back a
no-interest loan to Habitat. Volunteers
help to build homes. Results from our
church’s recent Social Action Survey revealed that at least 29 people are
interested in volunteering.
Jeanne Devine Soll has
investigated HH volunteer opportunities in the Valley. Phoenix Habitat for
Humanity has no monetary requirement, and is actively recruiting volunteers. Their newest location for houses is 20 acres
at 15th Ave. and Southern.
Volunteers must first attend an orientation.
The Social Action Committee
has decided to encourage volunteers to work at Phoenix Habitat for
Humanity. I (Karen McBeath) will
organize UUFTAHH, which stands for Unitarian Universalist Fools with Tools at
Habitat for Humanity. I‘ve been told
“uftah” is a Norwegian word for “oops”.
However, you don’t have to be Norwegian to join and you don’t need any
particular skill, just a desire to help.
I will provide details of upcoming orientation dates in the January
newsletter, Sunday service programs, and in emails to those who indicated
interest in the survey. I am making a
New Year’s resolution to attend a Habitat for Humanity orientation. Will you join me? Contact the church office for further
details.
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MEMBERSHIP
NEWS
We have completed another New UU course. On Sunday, November 10, five more members joined our ranks. A hearty VUU welcome to each of our new members
We encourage you to introduce yourselves to them if you did not meet them at the potluck luncheon. If you would like to learn more about our UU faith, our fellowship, and the pathway to membership, consider attending our next New U.U. class. The 4-week session will begin after the holidays on Thursday, January 9th. After the course is completed, an evening reception is held, followed by. a Sunday service and potluck to recognize new members on February 9th. Childcare can be arranged if given at least 48 hours notice. We would love to see you there! For details and to register for the class, contact the church office.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY WISHES TO LONG-TERM
MEMBERS!
VUU would like to recognize those who are celebrating their 10 Year (or more!) anniversary of being a Member of our Church. We're grateful for everything they have contributed over the years to help make this a welcoming and growing community. When you see them, tell them "Congratulations!"
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Thanks
for being a part of our Community
Do all the good you can
By all the means you can
In all the ways you can
In all the places you can
To all the people you can
As long as ever you can
John Wesley
WORSHIP
COMMITTEE REPORT
“Joys
and Sorrows Continues to Evolve”:
A New Look for Milestones
Many years ago, Reverend James Norman filled a community void when he performed the first Joys and Sorrows candle lighting service at VUU. Memorializing our lives, struggles and triumphs, this ritual of sharing our Joys and Sorrows was so well received that we incorporated it into our regular worship services. Over time, as our church community has grown, we have made various changes in Joys and Sorrows. First we changed to only two times a month; now we call it Milestones and try to limit the amount of time we spend on the Sundays it appears. Because of our continued growth and move from a small, intimate community to a mid-size program church, the Worship Committee is continuing the evolution of this important ritual.
Beginning in February, VUU will replace the current Milestones with four new ways to share our joys and sorrows with our community. This integrated program will help us all get our information out to each other and let us follow up on concerns people have at VUU.
First, there will be three whiteboards set up each Sunday for up-to-the-minute information regarding our community. The first whiteboard will celebrate the joys in our lives, those important steps in life, such as graduations, new jobs, anniversaries and birthdays. The second whiteboard will be a neighbor-networking alert, including notices on the business of life, such as job searching, places to rent, and miscellaneous services members can do for each other. The third whiteboard will detail immediate concerns within our community and give pertinent information that can be followed up on by others, such as who is in the hospital or ill and how they might be reached and helped.
Secondly, we will begin an entire Milestones Service every month, between the first and second services. Both services are invited to attend this “overlap” portion of the Sunday worship, where joys and concerns may be voiced to the congregation. This format will allow for more time and flexibility for this ritual. Lay-led, our new Milestones Service will allow us to grow our Milestones memorial into a strong alternative service in our meditative tradition. This new tradition will allow for the candle-lighting and vocal remembrance of those whom we care about in a format we can direct ourselves, evolving our own new ritual.
Thirdly, we are introducing a pastoral prayer in each Sunday service. Before the service, individuals can come to the front of the church and light candles of joy and concern. At the same time, they can write their concern on a paper collected before the service. Congregants’ concerns will be included in a pastoral prayer in each service. Many of us come from religious backgrounds that involve some form of congregational prayer for those within the congregation and the world. As our community becomes engaged in a wider range of activities, as the world continues to surprise us in its humanity and disgrace, we will be able to respond immediately within the service in the form of this meditative prayer.
Fourth, we
will have a Tree of Life in the front corner of the church, which we can adorn
with prayer flags in the Tibetan tradition memorializing our concerns, joys,
sorrows, and simple remembrances.
Personal remembrances of loved ones we wouldn’t
necessarily take the congregation’s time with can be signified on this
Tree.
All
of these changes will call on us to evolve ourselves. The Worship Committee is bringing these
changes forward to help in the dance between growth and intimacy that is the
life of our community.
Join
us for our new Milestones Service and help us integrate our new ways of getting
out the information of our lives to our community. We look forward to your help in our
continuing dance toward meaningful community at VUU!

December VUU Happenings
J Correction
VUU is responsible for serving dinner at Paz de Cristo on the second Friday
of each month, not the third Friday as mentioned in last month’s VUUpoint.
Women’s
Circle
This group, which
welcomes everyone, meets once a month on the second Thursday
at
We share in hosting this meeting by bringing cookies to trade (and eat) and a new toy, which will be donated to Interfaith Co-operative Ministries. The meeting will be held off site. For further details, contact the church office.
Do try to join this friendly group for some laughter and sharing. Looking ahead, the January meeting will be jeld on January 9, 2003—1:00 PM—and the theme is Sharing Your Readings.
— Humanists
The Humanists will not meet in December.
Our next meeting will be January 5, 2003
Eleanor Eisenberg, Director of
the Arizona ACLU, will speak on the USA
Patriot Act, passed in the aftermath
of the 9-11 attack and is a must attend program for all persons concerned about
the increasing restrictions on our civil liberties. If you plan to attend, please let Jim Pearson
know so that we can make certain seating will be available. Eleanor Eisenberg is an interesting and
popular speaker---please attend if you can.
PAGAN BUNCH

We
are meeting on Saturday, December 21 @ 6pm in the sanctuary, for Winter
Solstice Ritual.
Contact
the church office for further details.
More Opportunities for UUs
Travel with other UUs to

Elementary Winter
Spirit-Filled Fun!
Campers will experience Unitarian Universalism through a
dynamic program grounded in theater arts. We will explore UU identity through
play, arts, and worship. Campers will create personalized altar boxes and
chalices. For more information please contact the
church office.
Caring and Concerns
Neighborhood Contacts
Thanks very much to
all of you who filled out Volunteering forms at the Committee Fair. We
appreciate your willingness to help members of this community when the need
arises. If you didn't get a chance to complete a form
at the Fair, there are additional ones in the entryway. You can return it to
your Contact or the office.
Contact the church office
for the names and numbers of your Neighborhood Contacts.
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